Plan the ultimate bachelor or bachelorette weekend in New York State! Whether you’re looking for a thrilling adventure, stress-relieving retreat, or combined bachelor-bachelorette celebration, there’s an unforgettable getaway for every spouse-to-be and “I do” crew. From an all-inclusive dude ranch in the Adirondacks to the bright lights of New York City to Long Island’s tropical, sandy beaches, bring your bach party dreams to life with these 11 amazing New York State destinations. Photo credit: @emersonresort on Instagram

Celebrate your last ride at Ridin-Hy (Adirondacks)

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WHAT TO DO:

Trade the hustle and bustle of daily life for starry nights, horseback riding, and cozy cabins on a dude ranch bachelor or bachelorette getaway! Set on 700 acres nestled in the scenic Adirondacks, Ridin-Hy Ranch is an all-inclusive oasis filled with untamed year-round adventure, fresh air, and wide open spaces. Don’t worry about planning a thing with delicious meals and all kinds of fun group activities included in your overnight rate. Saddle up for horseback rides through the mountains, cast a line in the glittering lake, try your hand at archery, relax in the indoor pool or hot tub, or just chill on the porch and soak up the sights with the crew. Winter at the ranch is just as exciting with downhill skiing, snowmobiling, ice skating, sleigh rides, and a rustic ski lodge. Whether you’re chasing outdoor thrills or just some country-style R&R, Ridin-Hy Ranch serves up a weekend you won’t forget.

WHERE TO STAY:

The group can settle into one of the comfortable log cabins right at Ridin-Hy. Choose from lodging options that feature lakefront or mountainside views, outdoor patios, and accommodations for a variety of group sizes from four to 13.   

WHERE TO EAT:

You won’t be hungry at Ridin-Hy! All meals and snacks are included in your overnight rate. In addition to regular ranch dining, Ridin-Hy also hosts wine and cheese parties, cocktail parties, and nightly entertainment.

Bach and bougie by the beach in the Hamptons (Long Island)

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WHAT TO DO:

Got a bach in need of some serious relaxation? Plan a seaside bachelor or bachelorette party in the Hamptons! Kick off your getaway with a trip to Gurney’s Montauk Resort for a stress-relieving day at the Seawater Spa with seawater and marine-based therapies, a bathhouse, indoor pool, saunas, and more. Soak up the sun from award-winning beaches like Coopers Beach, Ditch Plains, or Main Beach. Try something new and take a group surfing or paddle board lesson with Sunset Surf Shack. Looking for a VIP experience on the water? Spend the day on your own private boat from Yacht Hamptons, where you can charter water sports boats, speed boats, yachts, and even Barbie-themed boats! Explore the Hamptons with Tapped Enterprises Bus Tours. There’s a tour for every type of bach party from winery and brewery excursions, with stops at Duck Walk Vineyards and Great South Bay Brewing, to fishing and beer packages. 

WHERE TO STAY:

For the ultimate relaxing retreat, stay in one of the 146 rooms, suites, or beachfront cottages at Gurney’s Montauk Resort, where guests can unlock direct access to a 2,000-foot private sand beach, five unique dining and drinking venues, the acclaimed spa, and exclusive events like Saturday bonfires in the summer, complete with s’mores and wine. For boutique luxury, treat the group to a stay at the American Beech Hotel in Greenport with 13 chic rooms and an Instagrammable restaurant and bar. The Crow’s Nest is another great option for wedding parties with 14 renovated king rooms, each with a private deck and stunning views. Cottages are also available and sleep up to six people, complete with a full kitchen, bathtub and living room. 

WHERE TO EAT:

Enjoy fresh seafood from Claudio’s, a staple of the Greenport’s waterfront for 150 years offering a raw bar, lobster rolls, fried fish and clams, pizza, and more. Jean-Georges at Topping Rose House is run by world-renowned Chef Jean Georges, where you’ll find farm-to-table cuisine for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch. If you’re looking for a relaxed, low key vibe, try the Montauk Brewing Co. tap room with craft brews and bites. 

Cheers to love in Canandaigua (Finger Lakes)

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WHAT TO DO:

Nestled in picturesque Finger Lake Wine Country and lakeside grandeur, this charming city is packed with amazing experiences for a memorable bachelor or bachelorette getaway. Kick things off with a signature beer or wine excursion from Crush Beer and Wine Tours, perfect for small groups or large parties up to 50, and savor award-winning craft beverages at stops like Casa Larga and Heron Hill wineries. You can’t go wrong with a stroll through downtown Canandaigua filled with locally-owned boutiques, art galleries, and cozy cafes. Set sail aboard a charming 19th-century steamboat replica, the Canandaigua Lady, where you can toast to the spouse-to-be on a lunch or dinner cruise. Craving even more adventure on the water? Canandaigua Sailboard offers private group sessions for paddle boarding, wakesurfing, and even glowing illuminated paddle excursions that are sure to make your weekend one to remember. 

WHERE TO STAY:

Canandaigua offers a variety of lodging options for the whole crew. Canandaigua 1892 Hotel is located in the heart of the historic district and offers five stylish boutique rooms. For picturesque lakeside beauty, try the Lake House on Canandaigua, nestled right on Canandaigua Lake with 124 impeccably-designed guest rooms, an outdoor pool, and a full-service spa.

WHERE TO EAT:

Whether you’re looking for a tasty meal, a fun group cooking class, NY Kitchen is a must-try. Simply Crepes is perfect if you’re in search of a unique brunch spot, serving homemade all-day breakfast and brunch, crepe creations, creative cocktails and mocktails, plus boozy coffee and mimosa flights. Enjoy Finger Lakes craft beers and wine and delicious food and snacks right on the Canandaigua City Pier at JPs Wine and Beer Tap Room.

Indulge in sights, lights, and heights in Manhattan (New York City)

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WHAT TO DO:

Nothing says once-in-a-lifetime trip like a New York City-style bachelor or bachelorette party! Start with a stroll or a picture-perfect picnic in Central Park, home to more than 800 acres of sprawling green space and amazing city skyline views. Speaking of city skyline views, be sure to pay a visit to Rockefeller Plaza’s 70th floor to unlock 360-degree vistas of the Big Apple (and iconic group selfie backdrops) from the Top of the Rock Observation Deck. For an extra special experience, go at sunset and reserve a VIP Pass which includes skip the line access, a guided tour of the observation decks, champagne toast, and VIP lounge arrival. Add some R&R into your getaway at Aire Ancient Baths and unwind in a candlelit oasis. Head out for the night and catch a Broadway show to witness the magic of world-class theater or get the group giggling at the Comedy Cellar, where famous comedians drop in for sets. 

WHERE TO STAY:

Moxy Times Square makes for a great centrally-located homebase, where groups can settle into quad bunk rooms. Boutique hotel vibes can be found at Hotel 32|32, found in a prime location to top attractions.

WHERE TO EAT:

In New York City, the choices for amazing cuisine are endless. If bottomless brunch is a must, try Essex, where you’ll find options for group dining. Ophelia is the perfect place to sip on a mocktail or cocktail and soak up rooftop views. Sit down for dinner at The Dutch, serving up American cuisine classics like burgers, homemade pasta, and steak.

Hike to new heights in Rhinebeck (Hudson Valley)

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WHAT TO DO:

Treat your bachelor or bachelorette to a mix of mountain vibes and luxurious experiences in Rhinebeck! Kick things off with a stroll down the village’s main street, where you can sip, shop, and snack through local boutiques, restaurants, cafes, and hidden gems like Samuel’s Sweet Shop owned by celebrities Paul Rudd, Jeffrey Dean Morgan, and Hilarie Burton. Unwind with a spa day at the Parisian-style Mirbeau Inn & Spa with plush robes and indulgent treatments. Get ready to explore the beauty of the Hudson Valley on a hike through the Ferncliff Forest with three easy trails and a rewarding fire tower climb with breathtaking views (and perfect group photo spot). Toast to the spouse-to-be along the Dutchess Wine Trail and hop between award-winning wineries nestled in the scenic countryside like Milea Estate Vineyard and Millbrook Vineyards & Winery.

WHERE TO STAY:

Spend the weekend in one of the four guest rooms at the Gables of Rhinebeck, a historic inn found in a 15-gable 1860 Gothic Revival Victorian and just a block from many of the village’s restaurants and stores. The Beekman Arms & Delamater Inn is another great option and one of America’s oldest operating inns. Choose from 80 guest rooms or rent out one of the private houses scattered throughout town. 

WHERE TO EAT:

Impress the whole crew with crepes and quiche for brunch or a raw oyster bar for dinner at the French-inspired Le Petit Bistro. For speakeasy vibes, try RhineCellar, a secluded cocktail lounge hidden in the basement of the historic Rhinebeck Hardware Company building. Bia is a modern Irish bistro serving up a blend of Irish and Hudson Valley cuisine. Plus, on the first and third Sundays of every month you can catch live Irish music!

Experience mountain views and adventures in Ellicottville (Chautauqua-Allegheny)

WHAT TO DO:

Plan the ultimate bach weekend in Ellicottville with Chautauqua-Allegheny’s enchanted mountains as your backdrop! Start your getaway with a visit to Holiday Valley for year-round adventure for the whole gang. As one of the top ski resorts in the east, winter means skiing, snowboarding, and snow tubing on spectacular snowy slopes. During the warmer months, hit the Sky High Adventure Park for zip lines, treetop thrills, and the high-flying mountain coaster, or score a hole-in-one at the resort’s Double Black Diamond Golf Course. After a day of action, melt away stress with a relaxing halotherapy session at the Ellicottville Salt Cave, Western New York’s first authentic European salt cave. Let the bachelor or bachelorette party channel their inner lumberjack at Ratchet Hatchet, where axe-throwing comes with craft cocktails and tasty bites. Head into the Village of Ellicottville for an apres-ski vibe and even more fun with shopping at one of the 24 eclectic shops, an amazing meal, or lively nightlife. 

WHERE TO STAY:

Holiday Valley Resort offers a variety of lodging options whether you prefer classic hotel vibes from the Inn or Tamarack Club or a secluded stay in one of the home or chalet rentals which can sleep up to 10 guests. The Jefferson Inn is another option found in a charming 1800’s Victorian Inn in the heart of Ellicottville. 

WHERE TO EAT:

West Rose is a popular place for dinner, creative cocktails, and Sunday brunch, well-known for its wood-fired brick oven pizzas. For a warm and inviting atmosphere, casual bar-style eats and award-winning brews head to Ellicottville Brewing Co. End the night with a drink and live music at Balloons, where you’ll also find an extensive plant-based menu. 

Say “I Do” to a pre-wedding Catskills adventure (Catskills)

WHAT TO DO:

For an outdoorsy bachelor or bachelorette, check out the charming hamlet of Narrowsburg, nestled in the scenic Catskill Mountains. Here, you’ll find the best of both worlds, whether you’re looking for a cozy cabin retreat or thrilling outdoor adventure. Get your heart racing with some group whitewater rafting on the Delaware River with Lander’s River Trips or find peace among nature with a relaxing stroll on the Narrowsburg Walking Trails. Venture into the mountains on a three-mile moderately-challenging hike on the Tusten Mountain Trail, where you and the crew will unlock views of the river, an arch bridge, and a breathtaking overlook. Make furry mountain friends at the Buck Brook Alpaca Farm, just 30 minutes outside of Narrowsburg, where you can hang with fluffy and friendly alpacas. Up for some live music? Head out to the site of the 1969 Woodstock Music Festival, Bethel Woods Center for the Arts, and jam out on the lawn to big name artists like Luke Bryan, Avril Lavigne, Dierks Bently, Blink 182, and Dave Matthews Band. 

WHERE TO STAY:

Settle in along the Delaware River at the Cabin on the River which sleeps up to six people and features a brick fireplace, private hot tub, hammock, and riverfront views. For a boutique hotel vibe, the Blue Fox Motel offers 11 guest rooms and four suites, plus woodsy cabins and a five bedroom guest house if you’re looking for something more secluded. 

WHERE TO EAT:

For a tasty brunch on Narrowsburg’s Main Street, try The Heron. Cochecton Fire Station was voted best back country bar in the U.S. by Men’s Journal, featuring a modern cocktail bar and bites. Indulge in dishes from the Alsace region of France at La Cignone with a fireplace, long bar, and cozy booths.

Soak in the Spa City (Capital-Saratoga)

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WHAT TO DO:

Celebrate the spouse-to-be with a weekend to remember in Saratoga! If you’re visiting in the summer, head over to the iconic Saratoga Race Course to experience the thrill of the track at one of America’s oldest and most legendary sports venues. This year’s season runs from July 10 through September 1, and is hosting the prestigious Belmont Stakes Racing Festival! After, get to know the “Spa City” and stroll the walkable downtown, where you’ll find a mix of everything from local clothing boutiques and antique gems to delicious restaurants and cafes, plus plenty of spots to toast to the bachelor or bachelorette. Let the good times roll and pedal your way through Saratoga aboard Capital City Cycle Tours’ 14-passenger, roof-covered party bike! Treat yourselves to some R&R at the Roosevelt Baths & Spa for a rejuvenating soak in Saratoga’s famous healing mineral waters. 

WHERE TO STAY:

Stay right off Saratoga’s main street, Broadway, at the historic yet chic Adelphi Hotel with beautifully-designed guest rooms and suites, plus two on-site restaurants. Centrally-located Bluebird Spa City Motor Lodge is another great option for groups with 42 dynamic rooms.

WHERE TO EAT:

If you’re looking for a brunch spot, head to The Merc which serves up elevated comfort food and craft cocktails as well as dinner. Hamlet & Ghost offers up a modern speakeasy vibe with new American cuisine and creative cocktails. Revel in the beautiful relaxing atmosphere of Saratoga Winery with a housemade wine flight.

Cruise and brews before “I Dos” in Buffalo (Greater Niagara)

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WHAT TO DO:

Want to plan a bachelor or bachelorette bash that combines time out on the water, an amazing food scene, and a visit to the one and only Niagara Falls? Buffalo is the getaway for you! Start things off with a splash on a Buffalo Cycle Boats, where you’ll get to pedal and sip your way along the scenic waterfront and downtown Buffalo.Three other boats including a party barge and tiki boat are also a part of the fleet. Looking to try something new? Get ready to show off your axe-throwing skills at Hatchets and Hops, which also offers craft beers and great eats. Nothing says “unforgettable weekend” like an Instagram pic of the “I do” crew alongside the breathtaking Niagara Falls. You can even feel the mist of the falls from Hurricane Deck on a Cave of Winds tour or float up to the base of the falls on the Maid of the Mist. Back in the city, explore Canalside, a lively downtown boardwalk packed with year-round events, games, concerts, and even ice skating in the winter. If the spouse-to-be is a sports fan, you’re in the right place. Whether it’s the Bills, Sabres, Bisons, or Bandits, Buffalo’s sports scene is sure to bring the energy.      

WHERE TO STAY:

Choose from 123 two-room suites with dramatic glass wall views at the Embassy Suites by Hilton Buffalo, where you’ll be close by to the Theater and Entertainment Districts, and many popular restaurants. The Buffalo Marriott at LECOM HarborCenter is another great option downtown attached to KeyBank Center, home of the Buffalo Sabres.

WHERE TO EAT:

You just can’t visit the home of the Buffalo wing without taking a trip along the Wing Trail! Dig into some of the best wings around at the trails 14 neighborhood pubs and restaurants like Anchor Bar. Billy Club is the place to go for brunch with the crew or a late night cocktail. Soak up the industrial vibes while you sip on craft brews at Big Ditch Brewing Company or pop over to Buffalo RiverWorks, home to Riverworks Brewing Co., The Ward Restaurant, a zipline, high ropes course, live concerts, and more. 

Enjoy laid-back river vibes in Clayton (Thousand Islands-Seaway)

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WHAT TO DO:

For a one-of-a-kind bachelor or bachelorette weekend, head to Clayton, nestled in the heart of the Thousand Island, packed with stunning river views and lasting memories. Spend a day out on the water with Sign Man Fishing Charters, where you’ll cast a line in the legendary St. Lawrence River (named best bass lake in 2024 by Bassmaster) aboard a classic 28’ twin inboard custom sport-fishing boat. Want even more time exploring the river? Book a Glass Bottom Boat Cruise with Clayton Island Tours to see through crystal clear waters and discover hidden gems or take the Ultimate Sightseeing Tour and visit the iconic Boldt and Singer Castles. For the ultimate VIP experience, rent your own private charter featuring stunning sights and full bar and dining options. Paddle your way through paradise with a kayak, canoe, or stand-up paddle board rental from Bayside Marina. Back on land, be sure to take a group stroll through the local shops, art galleries, restaurants, and cafes that line Clayton’s main street. 

WHERE TO STAY:

Treat the group to a luxurious retreat at the 1000 Islands Harbor Hotel, a AAA Four Diamond property located right on the river. Cozy up in the five river-themed rooms at the Chateau Country Inn, each featuring a private bath, common kitchen, living room, and screened-in porch. The Inn also offers a cottage with four bedrooms and three bathrooms. 

WHERE TO EAT:

Dig into brick oven pizza while you sip on craft brews at Wood Boat Brewery. The Thousand Islands Winery is a must-stop with award-winning wine flights and vineyard views. For brunch, head to the popular Koffee Kove serving up comfort food classics and fresh donuts on Fridays.

Knock bach weekend out of the park in Cooperstown (Central New York)

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WHAT TO DO:

Got a baseball-loving spouse-to-be? Cooperstown (AKA the home of baseball) is the place to be! Be sure to spend some time exploring the National Baseball Hall of Fame, where even casual fans will appreciate the iconic memorabilia, interactive exhibits, and history celebrating America’s favorite pastime. Hit a grand slam and swing by Cooperstown Bat Company, where you can create your own custom bat! While you’re in town, take the crew on a stroll through Cooperstown’s main street and discover local antique shops, clothing boutiques, arts and crafts, and other specialty stores. When it’s time to unwind, head to the Otesaga Resort Hotel for a stress-relieving massage from the Hawkeye Spa or tee off along dazzling Otsego Lake at the Leatherstocking Golf Course. Craft beverage enthusiasts should take some time to explore the Cooperstown Beverage Trail with stops at Fly Creek Cider Mill and Cooperstown Brewing Co. 

WHERE TO STAY:

The Holiday Inn Express Cooperstown offers comfortable rooms, located just minutes from the heart of the historic village near top attractions and businesses. Make one of the 18 guest rooms at the award-winning Inn at Cooperstown your homebase found near top village attractions.

WHERE TO EAT:

Brewery Ommegang is a must whether you’re looking to sample award-winning Belgian-style ales or dig into elevated bar bites. Just steps from the Hall of Fame is Doubleday Cafe serving up burgers, soups, sandwiches, and homemade desserts. For authentic Italian cuisine, head to Bocca Osteria with menu favorites like pasta, paninis, and woodfired pizza.

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